Keeping Your Woman Happy - Ten Tips for the Guys

Do you know how to keep a woman happy? Besides just nodding your head and saying, "Yes, dear..."

Here's some relationship tips for the guys:


First, just be yourself.


Many men don’t feel that they're good enough to catch a beautiful, sexy woman, so they put on a show. Eau contraire!!! Guys, a confident (not talking about arrogance) man is the sexiest beast around. Have you ever noticed that some of the not-so-physically-handsome or yes, some of the ugliest guys have some of the prettiest women? That's because they display a level of confidence that is more attractive to women than physical looks.


Second, do the little things. They mean a lot.

Offering to take her car in for an oil change or giving her a bag of her favorite Jelly Bellies from time to time, is huge and very much appreciated when schedules are tight or the workday has turned into the day from h-e-double-hockeysticks. Sometimes men think in terms of "grand gestures," when it's the little things that add up to long relationships.


This segues into the next relationship: appreciate her.

Like you, we women don't appreciate being taken for granted. Let her know that you value her.


Keep your eyes on her.

Obviously, not looking at other women when you're with her should be close to the top of the list. This happened to me when I was on a date with a guy in college....so I gave him that tall, cool drink of water....right over his head. I would ask that you please keep the one you're with in mind for the sake of sheer propriety and respect.

When you're busy ogling, women think that you're comparing her to the woman you’re looking at. Women don't get "The-day-I-stop-looking-is-the-day-I-die theory." This comes from the innate/biological drive for monogamy in women. Women are looking for a lifetime partner, for a man with whom they can raise children. We can't help it. It's how we were created and designed. So minimize the ogling, especially when she’s around. Got it?


Next helpful hint: Try to make her laugh.

While men list good looks at the top of the things they need in a woman, women list a man’s sense of humor. So if you've got a great smile and can make us laugh, too? Baby, you've just moved to the head of the class!


Commonalities...

It’s great if you got together because of a hobby or an interest, but it still helps when you take an interest in a long-standing passion of hers.

If this means developing an appreciation for foreign films, so be it. This shows that you care about her and she’ll know you're one in a million.

Once you get the girl, it might seem like you don't have to try anymore – at least as far as grooming goes. ;) While women are less sensitive to looks than men are, they still like a man who at least makes the attempt. So, shave on the weekends. Please.


Keep in touch with the latest fashion trends for men.

In short, don’t get sloppy just because you’ve "landed" her. You can unland her just as easily.

She needs to know that she can integrate you into her circle of family and friends. A man must be part of her larger life, especially after the first few weeks of passion and flying around on Cloud 9 are over. So, make an effort to get along with her girlfriends and impress her parents. A woman relies on her social network to validate her relationship choices. Make the effort.


Be considerate of her feelings.

Women are less stable than guys. We're created with an overdose of emotion. Yes, part of this is hormonal. Like I said, it's how we're designed. When you're sensitive to her mood, you won’t get on her bad side.


Finally, be open to trying new things.

At the beginning of a relationship, everything is new from the types of dates you arrange to the way you kiss. But, after a while, these things become routine. If you find that your relationship has fallen into a rut, shake things up a bit and try something new. It will go a long way to keeping your relationship healthy.

So, there you have it. Ten little bits of advice on relationships to keep your dating life strong.

Look, guys, these things are common sense and the fact is I almost drove the love of my life out of my life because I didn't pay attention to what I was doing.

There's a book that woke me up that I stumbled upon written by T 'Dub' Jackson called, "The Magic Of Making Up." After I read it and started applying his common sense suggestions, the love life turned around. Not only that, all of my personal relationships with friends, co-workers and my family have become much smoother than they were before.

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